They never teach you the good stuff in history class. For instance, did you know that 1998 was a pivotal year in vibrator history? That's right. In a Sex and the City episode, Charlotte gets a new sex toy (and borderline addiction): the rabbit vibrator.
Blended orgasms have been around since the first time a woman has penetrative sex, thought to touch herself simultaneously. They became a huge topic of conversation in the nineties — particularly after Charlotte discovered the blended orgasm vibrator.
You can understand why Charlotte was hooked (so to speak). Vaginal orgasms are delightful. So are clitoral orgasms. But the two of them together… well, you, too, might find the idea of a night-in suddenly more appealing. You can even go crazy and get other body parts — and orgasms — involved in the action.
What Is a Blended Orgasm?
A blended orgasm is simply a combination of orgasms experienced simultaneously. You can combine sensations by stimulating different parts of the clitoral complex — including the clitoris and the G-spot — and other erogenous zones.
For many women, a multifaceted approach makes orgasms easier and better. One study found that 36.6% of women require external stimulation to orgasm during sex, and an equal number reports more intense orgasms if the clitoris is involved.
Are blended orgasms real?
It may seem like a fairytale, but yes, humanity's fairy godmother did make blended orgasms possible.
That doesn't mean that everyone can experience a blended orgasm. In the same way that not all women can orgasm from vaginal stimulation, not everyone can achieve a blended orgasm.
Think of the blended orgasm is an exciting possibility and not as added pressure to sexually perform. The best orgasm is the one you enjoy the most.
Are there different types of blended orgasms?
Oh, yes. While people most commonly mean the clitoris-G-spot combo when discussing the blended orgasm, it can result from the combination of any two or more kinds of orgasms: clitoral, vaginal, nipple, anal — even kissing can give you an orgasm.
So get creative! Go ahead and compose your pleasure symphony.
What does a blended orgasm feel like?
It depends. First of all, the types of stimulation you choose will shape your experience.
More importantly, orgasms feel different for every woman. Other women may experience them as peaks, changes, or releases. They also vary in intensity.
Orgasms aren't consistent when it comes to the same woman. Each orgasm will feel at least a little different.
How to Have a Blended Orgasm?
But if you're looking to have a blended orgasm, your best bet is to explore clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Here's how to have a blended orgasm:
If you're exploring solo, you'll find your way to a blended orgasm most efficiently with a bit of assistance from a blended orgasm sex toy. Of course, you can also use these toys with a partner — particularly if they start to get a little jealous of your new best friend.
So give yourself a hand — and give your hand a break — with a blended orgasm toy from the best brands around.
Adam and Eve
If you're looking for the best toy for blended orgasms, this line makes a range of double-stimulation toys to suit your personal preference and budget. Whichever you choose, feel free to play in either the tub or the shower. All of the blended orgasm vibrators are waterproof and submersible.
The G Gasm Rabbit Pink combines an eight-inch angled G-spot vibrator with a clitoral tickler. With seven speeds and functions, indeed, you can find the one that's right for you. All you'll need to add is two A.A. batteries.
Or opt for the bunny-ears-shaped clitoral stimulation of the Silicone G Bunny Slim Pink, which comes armed with three different speeds and seven functions. This cutie is also battery-operated.
Eve's Rechargeable G-Spot Pleaser kicks it up a notch by engaging more of both your G-spot and clitoris. It's got a broad, angled head for internal stimulation and 100 soft and flexible nubs to tease your clit.
Do not worry about running out of batteries with the G-Spot Pleaser — even when rotating through all 10 of its functions. Just recharge it with its included USB cable.
But those who prefer the traditional rabbit-vibrator shape can still have battery-free fun. The Midnight Rabbit comes with:
- A magnetic USB cable for easy recharging
- Three speeds
- Ten functions
- A curved shaft
- A clitoral bunny stimulator
Plus it looks sexy with its sleek black body and gold-plated handle.
Not all women are shaped the same inside, which makes the Evolved Toy bunnies so genius. These vibrators are waterproof, submersible, and rechargeable — with USB cables included.
The Bendy Bunny has a flexible shaft with twisted ribbing that allows you to position it to hit your G-spot perfectly. You can control the eight speeds and functions of the rabbit and shaft motors separately or together.
The Sea Breeze Bunny Blue is more adaptable with a C-shaped silicone handle than a plastic base. You control the two seven-speed motors separately, using an easy two-button panel.
These two vibrators are almost identical. They both have:
- Two independently controlled motors
- Nine functions for both the shaft and clitoral stimulator
- A rechargeable power supply and USB charger cable
- A waterproof design
The difference lies in shape. The Ultimate Rabbit No.1 has a round head, smooth shaft, and two-pronged bunny ears.
The Ultimate Rabbit No. 2 has a flatter head, ribbed texture, and a single nub to stimulate the clit.
This iconic brand has refined its design since the days of Sex and the City. The ultimate in orgasmic luxury, the Jack Rabbit Heat Rotate G Rabbit Purple includes:
- Seven vibration functions
- Three rotation speeds for the shaft
- Independently controlled heating capability
- A rechargeable motor and USB charger cable
- A waterproof design
This vibrator can get hot even before you do. So give Charlotte's favorite a try!
With a partner
Achieving a blended orgasm with a company can be as easy as touching yourself during sex. A partner might also blend oral sex and fingering techniques to stimulate multiple areas of the vagina at once.
Whoever is touching, the best sex positions for blended orgasms can make things a little easier. For ease of access, try:
- The L-position
- Reverse cowgirl
- Doggy Style
You can even take things to the next level and have a threesome with your vibrator.
Cover Your Bases
One recent study found that most women having consistent sex with a partner were able to reach orgasm, but they did require different simulation methods.
The study also discovered that sexual satisfaction was greater when women engaged in the sexual activities and positions they preferred — which seems obvious, but it's a good reminder. Tell your partner what you need to achieve a blended orgasm.
Or try one of the sex toys above, and figure it out for yourself.
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