When you think of sexy body parts, the foot might not always be at the top of that list. For those with foot fetishes though, it's certainly a turn on. And it's actually a rather common fetish. According to Psychology Today, foot fetish ranks in the top three, along with hands and hair, as the sexiest body parts that aren't genitalia.

People have foot fetishes for all sorts of reasons. For some, feet are simply aesthetically pleasing to the sight and touch, and their brain has associated interacting with feet with sexual arousal. One study even suggested that because the feet and genitals occupy adjacent areas of the brain — around the somatosensory cortex — there could be some “neural crosstalk” between those areas.

Those with foot fetishes don't just admire feet but also enjoy touching, smelling, tasting, or licking them, too. The foot is the object to be “worshipped,” so to speak, and those who are sexually aroused by the sight, smell, and touch of a foot are known as podophiles.

Using the foot for sexual stimulation, otherwise known as a “footjob,” is the focus of this post. Let’s dive into what a footjob is, what it feels like, how to give the best footjob, how to ask for a footjob, and everything else you may be curious about regarding this fetish.

What is a Footjob?

A footjob is the stimulation of your partner’s genitals with your foot, sexually arousing them to, in some cases, the point of orgasm. There’s really no right or wrong way to give or receive a footjob, but there are some basic principles that you should follow to keep it safe, clean, and fun.

Hygiene

As with almost every sexual interaction, being clean and smelling fresh is generally a good idea (unless you’re into other types of fetishes that require a little, um, musk, but we won't be going into those here). 

Make sure your feet are washed, your toenails are clipped, and if you want to take it the extra mile, smooth down the calluses on your heels and the balls of your feet. Sharp nails and rough edges can clip, cut, or scratch your partner’s genitals, bringing what should have otherwise been a sexy time together to a quick end.

Lotion and Lubrication 

Once your feet are clean, you can think about using lotions and lubrication that will increase the pleasure of both the giver and receiver of the footjob. There are several products available that work great with footjobs. They include:

• ‌KY-Jelly – if you just want to get sloppy and slick, this is the stuff!
  
  
• Me and You Massage Oil – great for both partners, especially if you like grapefruit.
  
  
• Jo H2O Cooling - for a similar feel and viscosity to silicone, but it doesn’t contain oil, wax, or silicone.
  
  
• Slippery Stuff – water-based and water-soluble for no sticky residue and easy clean-up.
  
  
• Id Glide Travel Tube – for those moments when you’re on the go and need to lube up.

How to Give a Footjob?

Alright, your feet are clean and you’ve decided on a liquid sidekick (get it, side-“kick?” I’ll show myself out). Now, let’s figure out how to give the best footjob.

The best footjobs are going to have similar basic traits to other forms of oral sex like blowjobs and handjobs. At the end of the day, you want to provide sexual pleasure for your partner, and in this case, you’re utilizing your feet. 

What do they like? Are they sensitive and enjoy soft, smooth caresses? Or do they enjoy something a little bit rougher, with some force behind it? When you approach the footjob, keep what your partner likes in mind. 

Basic Techniques for a Penis Footjob

So, let’s get started and see how you’d approach stimulating a penis with your foot (you can definitely give a footjob to a vagina, but we’ll touch on that later). Sit on the bed or the floor, facing your partner where you can look into their eyes (or if you want to crank up the kink factor a notch, make them wear a blindfold or a mask) and your feet can reach their genitals. 

First, hold off on using the lubrication you’ve chosen until later. Begin by slowly teasing the tip of the penis over their underwear with your toes until it begins to get hard. Let the shaft become erect, then slide your toes under their underwear and touch the bare penis and balls with your toes. 

Once the penis is completely hard, try to remove the underwear with your toes. This might take some practice, but if your man loves feet AND you’re dexterous enough to remove his underwear with them, watch out! 

Now, with his underwear off, it’s time to apply that lube. Generously lubricate your feet and his member and begin with his penis between the soles of your feet. Start at the base and squeeze your feet together as you move up and down, similar to how you’d give a handjob. 

Alternate between stroking up and down, rubbing the tip of the penis with your toes and other parts of your feet. And don't be afraid to get creative! Given that your partner is really into feet, the more you can stimulate their genitalia in many different manners with your feet, the better!

Men can definitely orgasm from a footjob, so it’s up to the both of you if that’s how you’d like things to go. The footjob could just be part of a variety of sexual activities you have planned for the evening.

Footjobs for Vaginas

As we mentioned above, sexual stimulation with feet on vaginas can definitely happen and can be highly stimulating and arousing for both partners. 

Apply the same basic concepts and preparation work as mentioned above. Once you’re ready, you can start by using your big toe to massage the clitoris and apply pressure on it. You can also wiggle your toes across the lips of the vagina, and when that pussy is nice and wet, slowly insert the big toe inside and move it up and down to get more juices flowing.

How To Have Multiple Orgasms?

Similar to a man, a woman can orgasm from oral stimulation as well as from arousal using the foot. Decide beforehand with your partner how far you want to take the footjob component of your sexy time. 

How to Ask for a Footjob?

Regardless of whether you want to receive or give a footjob, you have to make sure your partner understands this desire and is willing and able to participate in it. Communication is key, and they should know that a foot fetish is one of your kinks. 

The best way to ask for a footjob is to let your partner know that it’s something you’re interested in exploring. You can begin the conversation by asking a broader question like, “What are some sexual experiences you’ve thought about that you haven’t experienced yet?” That way they're able to share their views on kinks and fetishes, giving you a chance to steer the conversation towards your pedal pleasure.

Every person is different and so are their corresponding kinks and sexual desires. You should never feel embarrassed or ashamed about what turns you on. If your fetish has to do with feet, let your partner know that you'd like to explore it further with a footjob. This fun and exciting sexual interaction is similar to all others kinds — it takes practice and figuring out what works best for you and your partner.

Oh, and don’t forget to get a mask like this one or this one, as well as lubrication!

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